What do you think of this?
For myself, all this video does is increase my desire to find my identity and my security not in my relationship with my husband. I find that if I put the expectation on my husband to meet all of my emotional needs,
I am setting him up for failure. He is only human. He can’t possibly be my identity. I need to be secure and happy with myself with or without him.
That way, the love and the emotional needs that he meets are just extra. And that way, if his eyes stray to that woman in the tiny bikini, I don’t have to feel insecure and wonder if I am enough for him. (Now, I’m not saying that I’m completely there, but it’s what I’m working towards).
Men and women are definitely from two different planets, and it becomes more apparent as the years go by. For instance, women can go to a public place like a beach and enjoy the company of their partner as if they were the only two in the room…
But men on the other hand are focused on the plethora of bikinis, but*s and b0obs they see bouncing around them…it’s like a theme park for him! But did you know there’s an actual science behind a mans straying eye?!
When the wife or girlfriend catches him observing other women, she feels threatened that he’s subconsciously comparing her to them! That’s when she begins to think he’s dissatisfied with her, and in turn might leave her!
But the man doesn’t ALWAYS find the woman he’s looking at more attractive, it’s just in his nature to look anyways. If he’s not attracted to you it wouldn’t matter if you stayed in a monastery full of monks…he still wouldn’t be attracted!